John Jantsch (00:01.668)

So what if the reason so many leaders stay stuck is not that they’re not working hard enough, but that they keep getting very good at solving the wrong problems. Hello and welcome to another episode of the Duct Tape Marketing Podcast. This is John Jantsch. My guest today is Kevin D. St. Clergy. He’s an entrepreneur, speaker, mentor, and author of Beyond Blind Blaming. Stop solving the wrong problems and instantly unlock results. After building and exiting his own company,

Kevin’s focus is work on helping entrepreneurs and leaders uncover the hidden assumptions, mindset blocks, and false diagnoses that keep them stuck. So, Kevin, welcome to the show.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (00:42.382)

Thanks, John. Appreciate you having me.

John Jantsch (00:44.122)

So the term, I want to start with, as I often do, words out of the title, the term blind blaming is, doing a lot of work here. How would you define it? You know, I’m imagining one of my business owners listening to this, sitting at a stoplight right now, wondering why their numbers are flat. So for them, how would you define the term blind blaming?

Kevin D. St.Clergy (01:08.834)

Now I’ll start with the story. It’s the origin story that everybody likes. I’ll be quick. But when I was 10 years old, I was a phenomenal baseball player at a batting average of five 50. And for those of you listening, five 50 is epic. It’s great. and people noticed I was going to bat every other time I went to bat Babe Ruth and his hayday three 94, just to give you an example.

so my dad and I went to work. worked with me on my mindset. I mean, I was young, but I love baseball and, we had a buddy who was actually used to coach for the Dodgers who was helping me with my swing in the off season. We practiced every day. And the next season I stood up and I was ready, but something was different because I started swinging and missing. In fact, I missed every time I went to bat for the entire next season. I literally went from here to zero and you probably guess what I heard from the stands. Come on, kid, keep your head in the game, play to win this time. And then can probably really imagine what my dad would give me lectures on on the way home.

John Jantsch (01:50.298)

Yeah.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (01:56.552)

about how bad my attitude was and that’s the biggest problem who by the way still thinks that’s what it was back then even though he’s read the book. But what we found was two weeks after I quit because I’d had enough of the abuse and eventually started blaming myself thinking I’m just not right for this game I quit baseball and I went to a fluke eye exam we figure out what the real problem was I just couldn’t see the ball.

Doctor said, sorry, kids practically blind without glasses. And here’s the real problem, the adults in my life for that two year stint never stopped blaming me for something that was completely out of my control. And that’s what we call blind blaming. And I see it in business, I see it in relationships, I see it everywhere. We all go through it. So for people that are down on their business, they immediately start thinking of things like, well, it must be my marketing, which I know you’ve taught for years. And a lot of times it’s not their marketing, they’re just not answering the damn phone when people call.

John Jantsch (02:44.058)

Yeah. It’s interesting how many times I’ve run into that, you know, that exact scenario. It’s like, you know, we’re just not getting enough leads and, we do call tracking and things like that. And we were like, yeah, you are. We’ve listened to the phone calls. You know, that’s not really the issue, so how does, let’s start there. Well, there’s, mean, I can go a lot of directions, but since we went there, how like,

Kevin D. St.Clergy (02:56.929)

Yep.

Yeah.

John Jantsch (03:11.938)

If you’re working with a client, you’re working with a business and you can clearly see that they’re blaming the wrong things for the results that you’re bringing. mean, how do you circumvent that? How do you change direction with that? How do you help them recognize that they’re looking at the wrong? And it’s rampant. mean, perfectionism is an example of blind blaming, I think, a lot of times.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (03:31.766)

It’s rampant. yeah.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (03:36.812)

Yeah. Well, the book’s broken into three sections on purpose. It’s awareness. So I’m finding that once people start reading about blind blaming, and they’re more aware of it, then it starts to make sense.

John Jantsch (03:42.883)

Mm-hmm.

John Jantsch (03:46.383)

Yeah.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (03:48.342)

Then we teach them the RCD method, which is how they get past blind blaming. It’s very simple, but remember simple doesn’t always mean easy, but it’s simply reflect. RCD stands for reflect. Is there something else going on that I can’t see? You’ve got to learn to ask yourself that question because if you keep solving the same problem over and over again and you’re not getting any different results, that’s where we lead to insanity. But that’s what we go through as small business owners. And even when you get really big like we did with our agency, we had 450 clients with 900 locations, Sean. So I have plenty of scars of people like

I don’t think your service is working. I’m really I’m showing 22 leads last month from your call tracking number Yeah, but we only scheduled two. I was like, well, that’s not my fault That’s blind blaming so But here’s where I think people fall down because they’ll get their team together and say what do you guys think it is? And they’re all in that sphere of influence and everybody else says what must be marketing. It’s certainly not us as salespeople It’s got to be the marketing. I just don’t have enough leads and the leads are generating their crap

So connect is the C stage. You have to connect with an outside source, a mentor, a coach. I like paid coaches. I’ve had one for 20 years. Just got a new one that’s kind of up in the next level because I want to get the nine figures here pretty quick. So I’ve just needed a coach that’s already there. And then I also have mastermind groups. Those are some of my favorite ways to learn. I know you’ve been part of them. I think you’ve led them in the past. And I think when you do that, these people can see what you can’t see because they’re outside of that sphere of influence. You’re not tied down with your successes and your failures.

John Jantsch (05:11.29)

Yes, yes.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (05:12.181)

And finally, once you know what it is, this is where D comes in. You got to decide to do something different. In fact, it was pretty cool because.

I was a little worried about this in the chapter because it does use the F word and even Jack Canfield, he’s only the second guy I read the book. He’s like, man, I even love your effing part. And I’m like, my God, I just got Jack Canfield to say the F word on video, but it’s MFD make an effing decision. Because once you know what it is, I see a lot of people are like, no, maybe not. Let’s go back and review this again. Do something. And that’s a great story. Cause when we came up with this, it was actually one of my clients. She was debating on whether to go with one or two loans to double her business. And she’s like, Kevin, what do you think I should do? And I just told her straight up.

up, Kayla, I think you need to make an effing decision. But I didn’t say effing. I’ve known her well enough. I helped her start a business seven years ago. And she’s like, okay, okay, she comes back a month later. And I always like to start coaching calls off these days with what’s going well. And she’s like, Kevin, I’m MFDing all over the place. You changed my life. Even my husband’s noticed and we’re doing things. We got the loan. We bought the business. We’ve doubled the size. We’re doing great. I’m like, MFD, what are you talking about? She’s like, make an effing decision. What you told me to do on the last call. I’m doing it. And I was like, Kayla, do you mind if I use that in my book? Because I love that.

John Jantsch (06:16.378)

Hmm.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (06:18.018)

And that has turned out to be the biggest thing I was worried about has turned out to be the thing that people mentioned or remember the most. Cause they’ll come up to my booth after a talk and say, man, I love the MFD part. You’re right. I’ve got to make some decisions and make some mistakes.

John Jantsch (06:30.276)

So how you think about the entrepreneur, mean, there’s more to get done in a day, every day, seemingly than they possibly can. So, you know, they get really wired for go, go, go, go. In some ways you’re saying, wait a minute, slowing down is actually a more aggressive approach than, just constantly going at full tilt. How do you get people who recognize that, you know, that our part? Yeah. Yeah.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (06:55.968)

I do a schedule audit and I see do they like for me 5 to 5 30 a.m. I get up early I didn’t used to because I worked in a bar all through grad school but now I get up and from 5 to 5 30 is my quiet time I grab a cup of coffee I do not look at a screen and I just journal and try to come up with ideas and I can see it on their calendar when they’re working six days a week and trying to see customers or patients whoever you’re working with because they keep losing people and they don’t give them some they don’t give themselves time to think

John Jantsch (07:16.312)

Yes.

Mm-hmm.

John Jantsch (07:24.78)

Right. How do you get them to do that? How do you get them to do that? That’s… Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (07:25.87)

And so I make them, well, I make them schedule the time. Just like yesterday, we had a client, I’m like, where’s your admin time? He’s like, well, I’ve got administrative assistant. I didn’t mean for her, when are you working on your marketing? She’s like, what do you mean? I’m like, wrong answer.

John Jantsch (07:39.226)

Yeah, yeah.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (07:41.934)

So at the end of the call, we had her physically book these two Fridays in a row that she was gonna take four hours to work on this. And she’s so excited, because then she’s like, well, what do I do? So we had to actually lay out what she needs to do. So first you gotta schedule the time. What gets scheduled gets done. Then you need a personal assistant to protect you from yourself, John. This is like Christina Cann, who I think you interacted with, she booked this.

John Jantsch (07:57.988)

day.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (08:04.909)

Christina’s constantly protective for myself because I say hey booker there. No, that’s your time to work on marketing for us to keep the company going I’ll find another space for that person So a lot of times I’ll find entrepreneurs who are just GSD getting us done and they’re not focusing on time for themselves nor do they have a personal assistant and that’s usually one of the first hires that I have people do when they’re a solopreneur

John Jantsch (08:27.268)

Yeah. And, know, for years I’ve, I actually just blocked that time out every week, that I’m going to do, you know, cause there’s a lot of things that you actually, you can’t get done between, you know, podcast calls, right? I mean, there’s, need that three hour ramp, if you’re going to do it. And so I’ve, I’ve just had that on my calendar and, know, the nice thing is you can’t schedule over it. You know, other people can’t schedule over it.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (08:29.357)

.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (08:41.355)

Right. Yeah.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (08:51.757)

No, and I like, yeah, I agree. And I like having breaks. mean, Christina is really good about a 10 a.m. break from 10 to 10 30. That’s my walk and my snack from 12 to one. I do take a lunch. I didn’t used to take lunches. I worked through it. Just power through as a mistake. 30 minutes at three o’clock to three 30. And I usually wrap up my day between two and two and three o’clock these days because I start pretty early.

John Jantsch (09:06.967)

Yes.

John Jantsch (09:13.427)

Yeah, same here. So when you’re working with a client, have you started to recognize specific patterns of language particularly that kind of tip you off that like, this one’s in blind blaming mode?

Kevin D. St.Clergy (09:16.077)

.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (09:25.613)

Yeah, it’s the stories they’re telling themselves. And I’ll give you a great example of somebody recently. She’s like, I can’t wait to work with you. She was really excited. It our first call. We had a great interview. And she’s like, was like, what do you think your biggest challenge is? When we got to that point, she says, well, I’ll never be as big as you, but my biggest problem is marketing. And I said, wait a minute, let’s stop. Let’s go back. It’s not your marketing.

John Jantsch (09:27.45)

Yeah.

John Jantsch (09:43.988)

Hehehehehe

Kevin D. St.Clergy (09:50.036)

Why did you say you’ll never be as big as me? She goes, because I just know it. I know I’m not going to be as big as you, you know, I’m like, okay, well, let’s work on that. So we spent the first call working on mindset because our coaching program we called M3 mastery. It’s mindset, margins, momentum. I just find if we build the business owner that builds the business, we’ve had a lot of success with that over the years. And a lot of times just giving them a way.

to dream bigger and think big makes a huge difference. We were at dinner a couple nights ago. I was on a big podcast, live podcast here in Austin with a bunch of people and one of the people was one of my customers and she had been invited too. And she’s like, you know, before I met you, I just thought I’d be happy with just a million dollar a year business working, know, Monday through Friday, eight to five. And I never thought that I’d have a $3 million a year business working Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday and taking Thursdays and Fridays completely off.

It wasn’t until you taught me how to think bigger that made the big difference for me. So build the business owner that builds the business and start thinking big. I mean, that’s why we’re, you know, we had an eight figure exit. I want a hundred million dollar exit next. That’s my next thing. So the bigger you think, the bigger you’ll get.

John Jantsch (10:51.417)

if

John Jantsch (10:59.354)

So, let’s go back to that marketing example. I totally agree with you. Walking that back to mindset certainly was the place to go. But we work with a lot of agencies and I mean, so I hear this story all the time. You deliver, results are still flat, everyone blames the agency. So you’ve probably heard that exact situation. How do you get people to walk that back? Because they’re basically making that

Kevin D. St.Clergy (11:01.933)

you

Kevin D. St.Clergy (11:22.285)

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John Jantsch (11:28.686)

decision, if you will, that blame based on what data they can see or what data they think they have and that data is we’re not growing.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (11:32.066)

Yeah.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (11:39.342)

Yeah, so they, I mean, we call it the three fatal falls of blind blaming. So the first one, we have these cognitive biases, John, that you’re well aware of, because I’ve been following you for years, and you’ve helped me a lot over my career, so I could say thank you in person, by the way. But.

John Jantsch (11:51.799)

You

Kevin D. St.Clergy (11:53.838)

I think the first fatal flaw is there’s this thing called availability bias. And these cognitive biases are there to help us make decisions quicker and do things better and faster, but they can be getting away and hinder our success as well. And the first one is called availability bias, which means the first thing that pops into an entrepreneur’s head about what’s wrong with their marketing, that’s it. It’s got to be their agency and the people that have agencies that are working with customers. Cause I had a marketing agency for 17 years. I know the scars. I’ve got the deep wounds. For those of you who do choose to read the book, you’ll see those wounds in the, in the book with some of my

examples. But once they do that then the next fatal flaw comes into play where it’s confirmation bias. They become a treasure hunter to prove themselves right and they start looking for data to back that up. Well I’m definitely slow. It was my slowest month ever and I wasn’t slow before I hired you guys so it’s your fault.

And so then finally, you’re too busy looking at the wrong problem, you can’t focus on the right solutions. So that’s the third fatal flaw. So what we do though is, especially for like agencies, when working with agencies, I just share with them what we did when we changed our whole model from just providing digital marketing services to a business growth company and started including coaching, because I was getting so frustrated and so angry of generating leads and then them not converting those leads to appointments. And so we created Front Desk Academy.

Then I was getting really frustrated because we were putting the leads in front of them and then they weren’t closing them. And of course it’s still our fault. Couldn’t be them, it’s not their sales process, not another sales training. I had a recent customer and she said this online out loud to everyone that when I mentioned that we really need to work on your sales process, she started crying. So it was, I was like, I didn’t want to make you cry. I said, no, it’s not you, you’re right, I need to fix this. So.

I think what agencies need to do is they need to pivot a little bit and they need to start looking at the results that they get and what it really does. Because people, don’t think people want to sign up for more marketing. They don’t want to spend money on marketing. What they want is to make more money, grow their business and have more of an impact.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (13:47.534)

And that’s the change we made in 2018. When we became a business development company that provided digital marketing services, and no matter what they did with us, we would help them grow. Because let’s face it, you’ve done this, John, some marketing works, some doesn’t. Some digital marketing takes months to get going. But what we did is we developed a business assessment to help them identify holes in their bucket, and then we helped them fill it. So weekly, we were coaching them for the first eight to 10 weeks they were on board with us, where a lot of people got a return on their investment before we even started their marketing, before it got going.

John Jantsch (14:17.412)

Yes.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (14:17.665)

That’s when we quadrupled the size of our company. We did really well. We weren’t even looking to sell. Our broker came to us and said, look, I think your business is worth this. And we started laughing. And then he got that. So it was kind of a blessed day. Anyway, I hope that answers your question in a good way.

John Jantsch (14:21.924)

Yes.

John Jantsch (14:29.242)

Yeah, no, absolutely. That’s really where we’ve been for years. mean, the only thing when people engage us, it’s not to do their marketing, it’s to do what we call strategy first, which is a very set engagement that has set deliverables that we work on their business objectives first. We work on the founder and finding where they’re getting in the way. and I tell you from a marketing standpoint, it changes the whole relationship too.

in day one not seen as a vendor. We’re seen as a trusted advisor and all the other stuff we want to recommend, they’re like bring it on because you’ve changed the relationship.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (15:01.046)

Yeah.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (15:09.279)

Yeah, and I love it. Yeah, because you’ve become a partner and when somebody comes in with a lower price, they’re like, yeah, but I lose John and his team. That’s what we learned. We just did it. The story is in my book as well. But yeah, I agree. And I love that you’re doing that.

John Jantsch (15:13.433)

Yes.

John Jantsch (15:16.761)

Yeah.

John Jantsch (15:23.62)

So symptom fixing versus root cause thinking. How do you get people, most people are in symptom, you know, this hurts, you know, how do I fix it? How do you get people to start thinking way beyond the symptom to, you know, wellness, if you will, if we’re going to use the analogy.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (15:41.174)

Yeah, so back to that. We teach them the process. We teach them how to move beyond blind blaming with making them aware that blind blaming exists and they’re suffering from it. Then we take them through the RCD method, but a lot of times they don’t really know how to dig a little deeper. So we’ve been really big on if we’re working with coaches or agencies, helping them develop an assessment that does go deeper.

And then that’s how we identify things. We have them take a small assessment that helps them step out of the box and take a look at the way they’re doing things. For some reason, I mean, when I used to do it in person, it worked okay, but when they have them do the assessment and they see the results with the AI stuff we have today, it’s made a huge difference. And they’re like, man, I knew exactly when I went through this assessment what’s really going on.

And now it just helps my coaching go a lot faster. Don’t know why I’m not, I don’t, it was just something that I learned to do at a conference and we started using it and then we started teaching our clients to do the same and they’re seeing the same thing. So having an assessment that helps them step out of the box and look at the way they’re doing things to identify some other things it can be is one of the first things. But a lot of times just if you’re working with a good coach like yourself, who’s got a lot of experience and you’ve seen the same mistakes that entrepreneurs make every other day when it comes to their marketing, we know.

Cause I love it when people tell me like, well, I definitely need to rebuild my website. And I always ask why. Look, I had a digital marketing. My company’s job was to produce some doubt so that you would switch to us. But I always instructed our practice advisors as we called them, cause we were in the medical field to ask them how many leads a month before you switch and come to us, how many leads a month are you going? And you can probably guess what we got, John. What do you mean?

John Jantsch (17:16.922)

One, two, yeah. Yeah, well, that’s true.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (17:18.253)

I have no idea. No, most of time it was like, I don’t know. I just know I need to switch because my business is down. And then sometimes we wouldn’t let people come on board. like, listen, no offense. I’d love to earn your business, but you’re getting like 30 leads a month from your current marketing company. I don’t think you have a problem with this. And we used to secret shop their clinics before we’d get on the phone with them. I like, listen, your problem is your front desk. In fact, you know, when we said how much are your hearing aids, she said they can be as much as $7,000, but you probably won’t need those. Great script.

No, they would hang up and go away. And I said, guess who scored worse on these secret shopper calls? Do you think it was the front desk or the owner? The owner. They’re the worst. So anyway, that’s, that’s some of the things that we do is help them step out of the box and take a look at other things.

John Jantsch (17:52.922)

Yeah.

John Jantsch (18:00.1)

So, I mean, you’re in the personal coaching mindset space. So you probably quite naturally get, mean, some of your engagements probably get personal pretty fast. and I think, what I think is interesting about that and where there’s, see a lot of resistance, particularly from service providers. It’s like, I’m just here to do this, you know? but what I’ve seen is that I think what people are craving now, just what you said, they don’t want.

more marketing stuff. They don’t, you know, they don’t want to basically go, I mean, I can’t tell you how many times I’ve talked to somebody and they’ve had like five agencies and they’ve all done the same thing. You know, it’s like you’re hiring them to do the same thing. You know, what did you, what did you expect? And, and what I think people are craving today more than ever is transformation. Um, and I think that we have a real opportunity as service providers or whatever we want to call it to actually go so much deeper and help them evolve.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (18:39.021)

yeah.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (18:42.519)

Yeah.

John Jantsch (18:58.552)

not just as a business, but as a person. And that’s a space that I think is wide open, quite frankly, in the marketing world.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (19:05.229)

Yeah, I agree because we, as I said, we found that we in our big masterminds where we charge 25 and 50 grand a year. It’s very interesting to me to go from a digital marketing company charge of $900 a month.

John Jantsch (19:15.63)

Yeah, right.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (19:17.549)

and having this, have you done for me today to 25 and 50 and then soon to be $100,000 level and have people go, I can’t believe this, you changed my life. I can’t wait for next year. Let’s, they’re re-upping. We have a 90 % up rate, re-up rate at the end of the year. It’s fascinating to me because we changed the way we focus. We talked about that transformation and what’s happened with other clients. So yeah, totally with you. And it’s, it’s just amazing to me. If we can get more agencies to focus on that transformation, John, uh, cause that’s what we just trademarked heck out of this, but we call our program M3 Mastery from Trans

John Jantsch (19:34.852)

Yeah.

John Jantsch (19:39.46)

Peace.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (19:47.456)

transactional to transformational and that was my big lesson when we really focused on Getting some transformation in their business not just what we did or the service provide That would that made a huge difference and sometimes as you said We’d find that the owner has a health problem that when I am diagnosed for years Like just recently we had somebody who has a very large eight figure a year of business, but she was miserable I was like, long has it she been to the doctor? She’s about 43. So she’s getting up to you know in that age She’s like, you know, I read your book and I’ve got an appointment

John Jantsch (19:49.38)

Nice.

John Jantsch (20:13.742)

Yeah, yeah.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (20:16.981)

And so she came back and she’s like, my God, my testosterone is low and I had no idea. It’s been that way for years. My doctor never run the test. And once we got that fixed, she exploded. Her team culture completely changed. Everything came into place where the coaching finally started working. Cause she was getting frustrated with me and I’m like, look, I think there’s something else going on that you’re missing. Let’s go back to that assessment. Cause we look at five different areas. We look at their health, we look at their purpose. We look at their relationships, not necessarily their personal relationships with the people, how they react with people.

John Jantsch (20:22.468)

Hmm.

John Jantsch (20:32.985)

Hmph.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (20:46.895)

people at work and a few other things like a growth mindset versus a fixed mindset and then we make sure they have the right resources and usually in those five areas it’s not about finding one thing in each area John it’s about finding that one thing and for her it was low testosterone which is something that I went through a couple years ago so I put in the book.

John Jantsch (20:46.906)

Sure.

John Jantsch (21:00.396)

Yeah. Yeah, that’s funny. Well, Kevin, I appreciate you taking a moment, a few moments to share with our audience. Is there someplace you’d invite people to find out more about your work and certainly get a copy of the book?

Kevin D. St.Clergy (21:12.011)

Yeah, you bet. Yes, sir. I always recommend people go to the website blindblaming.com.

We have for 15 bucks, have all four copies of the book that you can get plus a bunch of bonuses. It’s just a great way to get in our funnel and you’ll get invites to some of the challenges and things like that that we do as well. So blindblaming.com is the best place to go and just from the feedback I’ve got the last couple of years on the book, the book. You can listen to it whether it’s audio, PDF, or if you’re a book book person like I am because I’m older, you can get all four copies and I think it’ll change your life.

John Jantsch (21:42.854)

I appreciate it. And again, hopefully we’ll run into one of these days when we’re out there on the road. In fact, I’m going to be in Austin.

Kevin D. St.Clergy (21:51.38)

great, I’d love to see you. Yeah, come up to the compound. We’d love to have you. So we got indoor golf, we got a garage, Mahal, we got a casino, we got a wine cellar. So we got some fun up here. Come see me.

John Jantsch (21:51.537)

maybe I’ll stop by.